If you are seeing someone?

Really wants something more, so unless YOU don't why are you inventing complications? It may be that you don't want something more and are trying to use him as the excuse so you don't have to take responsibility for feeling the way you do. There's nothing wrong with not wanting something more if you really don't. But if you do, sounds like you've got a slam dunk staring you in the face. Hurry, or you may lose out.