What would you do in this situation?

its not about being immature or anything...but its about keeping to your own words. if you know you cnt make it, then dnt agree. i know you want to help but you have to explain to her..you know? lyk why you cnt help..so on. i wont blame her for being mad at you and i also wouldnt judge you for not making it b/c you live in bronx and she live in queens. But it's very irritating and annoying when someone promise you something and you tell that person you cnt do it at the very last second. she is your best friend and obviouisly she wants to meet you... so my advice is to think before you promise. if you want her to be happy then go to her next fund raiser and apologize. her wedding is coming soon dnt make mad :)