What should I do about my In-Laws?My husband & I have been married for 15+ years?

@ the beg our marriage, we made mistake of moving close 2 them. Everyday some1 was knocking on our door. Do you have a broom, what ch'all having for dinner, do you have any ice cream. Do you have shampoo, sanitary naps. They would always stay for a real long time. Religious differences seperate us. Their lifestyle is different than ours. Most of the time they drink up a storm for family gatherings & while we are not teatottalers, we don't get drunk. My FIL drives drunk. hubby & I will be moving to a bigger hse. They HATE me & talk about me bhind my back. He says they will come by 1x1 to see new hse. I can't stand idea of dealing w/ them but would prefer to have them all over @ once so I can control visit & time frame? I know he wants them over but b/c of the tension he doesn't want a break bread situation. I don't want him to be hurt or feel like he can't have his people over, but they don't like me & I don't like them. My MIL puts her own purse in trunk when some visit. You get pict?